Prepare the next conversation, session or decision.
Work through these 10 steps and choose the actions relevant to your situation. The pitfalls are illustrative examples, not customer quotations. Use the checklist on screen or print it for your preparation.
Verify the situation
Illustrative pitfall
“The customer received an explanation that changed an hour later.”
- Confirm facts with the responsible delivery team.
- Separate evidence from assumptions and forecasts.
- Identify what still needs checking.
Review the commitments
Illustrative pitfall
“We argued about scope without reading the agreed record.”
- Check the approved scope and relevant decisions.
- Identify what the customer was reasonably expecting.
- Escalate any contradictory commitments internally.
Understand the impact
Illustrative pitfall
“We described our problem and ignored the customer's consequences.”
- Ask who or what is affected.
- Explore the impact on their work and deadlines.
- Avoid minimising the concern before understanding it.
Align internally
Illustrative pitfall
“Different supplier contacts offered incompatible recovery plans.”
- Agree a clear account of the known situation.
- Identify who can approve options and commitments.
- Name one owner for the customer update.
Open directly
Illustrative pitfall
“Reassuring language delayed the information the customer needed.”
- State the issue in plain language.
- Acknowledge its effect on the customer.
- Explain what is known and what remains uncertain.
Listen under pressure
Illustrative pitfall
“A frustrated response was treated as a reason to stop listening.”
- Let the customer explain their main concern.
- Check that you understand the priority.
- Keep the discussion respectful and focused on the work.
Present feasible options
Illustrative pitfall
“The proposed recovery plan had no delivery owner behind it.”
- Verify options with the responsible teams.
- Explain trade-offs, effort and dependencies.
- Keep forecasts distinct from confirmed commitments.
Keep scope changes explicit
Illustrative pitfall
“A goodwill gesture quietly expanded the project scope.”
- Identify changes to deliverables or responsibilities.
- Follow the agreed approval process.
- Record what is proposed and what is authorised.
Agree the update plan
Illustrative pitfall
“We promised updates without a date or useful content.”
- Name the person who will communicate progress.
- Agree the next update time and what it will cover.
- Explain how new blockers will be escalated.
Follow through
Illustrative pitfall
“A good conversation was undermined by a missed commitment.”
- Record actions and monitor their owners.
- Update the customer even when the answer is still incomplete.
- Review what should change in future handoffs or communication.
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