Difficult Conversations Training

Tailored training for technology teams

Address the difficult issue and agree a workable next step.

Two days or four half-days. Goals, examples and practice tailored to your team.

Colleagues discussing ideas around a meeting table.

People Skills for Tech Teams

Difficult Conversations & Conflict

Managers and technical colleagues facing disagreement or missed expectations.

Preparation checklist

Day 1 · Morning

9:00 a.m.–12:30 p.m.

Prepare a fair conversation

  • Agree personal goals and the workplace situations to practise.
  • Choose a private setting and a clear purpose for the discussion.
  • Separate facts, assumptions, impact and the outcome needed.
  • Practical exercise: Attempt an opening about a missed commitment and review the language used.
  • Take forward: A preparation brief and neutral opening.
  • Receive specific feedback and repeat a key part of the conversation.

12:30–1:30 p.m. · Lunch

Day 1 · Afternoon

1:30–5:00 p.m.

Listen through disagreement

  • Ask questions before defending your own interpretation.
  • Summarise the other person’s view without implying agreement.
  • Acknowledge perspectives, ask useful questions and check understanding.
  • Practical exercise: Rotate through a disagreement in triads, practising a summary before responding.
  • Take forward: A shared account of the issue and points needing clarification.
  • Receive specific feedback and repeat a key part of the conversation.

Day 2 · Morning

9:00 a.m.–12:30 p.m.

Work with emotion and boundaries

  • Recognise when the conversation needs a pause.
  • Distinguish a constructive boundary from a threat or ultimatum.
  • Respond calmly, state limits and recognise when to pause or escalate.
  • Practical exercise: Rehearse a scope or feedback conflict with rising pressure and a boundary decision.
  • Take forward: A response plan with appropriate support or escalation.
  • Receive specific feedback and repeat a key part of the conversation.

12:30–1:30 p.m. · Lunch

Day 2 · Afternoon

1:30–5:00 p.m.

Agree action and review

  • Check that commitments are specific and within each person’s control.
  • Agree how progress and any remaining disagreement will be reviewed.
  • Convert discussion into specific commitments and a follow-up.
  • Practical exercise: Repeat the conversation and test whether both parties can explain the agreement.
  • Take forward: A clear action record and a workplace application plan.
  • Agree two improvements to apply at work and how progress will be reviewed.

People Skills for SaaS Sales Teams

Difficult Customer Conversations

Customer success, delivery and account teams handling scope or service tension.

Preparation checklist

Day 1 · Morning

9:00 a.m.–12:30 p.m.

Prepare the facts and impact

  • Agree personal goals and the customer situations to practise.
  • Check service commitments and what you are authorised to offer.
  • Separate what happened, what is known and what needs investigation.
  • Practical exercise: Attempt an opening about a delay and compare the customer’s interpretation.
  • Take forward: A factual briefing and clear opening.
  • Receive specific feedback and repeat a key part of the conversation.

12:30–1:30 p.m. · Lunch

Day 1 · Afternoon

1:30–5:00 p.m.

Listen and acknowledge

  • Acknowledge customer impact without inventing an explanation.
  • Avoid defensive language and promises before the facts are checked.
  • Explore impact, avoid premature promises and clarify the desired outcome.
  • Practical exercise: Practise listening to a dissatisfied customer in rotating roles.
  • Take forward: A checked account of impact and expectations.
  • Receive specific feedback and repeat a key part of the conversation.

Day 2 · Morning

9:00 a.m.–12:30 p.m.

Explain options and limits

  • Explain scope boundaries and trade-offs in plain language.
  • Clarify who can approve an exception and when an answer is due.
  • Present verified options, own the next action and escalate appropriately.
  • Practical exercise: Rehearse a scope or service conflict with a request outside authority.
  • Take forward: An options and escalation plan.
  • Receive specific feedback and repeat a key part of the conversation.

12:30–1:30 p.m. · Lunch

Day 2 · Afternoon

1:30–5:00 p.m.

Rebuild a workable next step

  • Agree what the customer will hear next, from whom and when.
  • Record decisions and ownership in a concise follow-up.
  • Confirm responsibilities, communication and review dates.
  • Practical exercise: Repeat the customer conversation and draft a practical follow-up.
  • Take forward: A recovery communication plan and two workplace actions.
  • Agree two improvements to apply at work and how progress will be reviewed.

Each morning and afternoon includes a short break. Practice groups and timings are agreed so everyone can practise, receive feedback and repeat a key section.

Tailored to your team

We agree the goals, learning outcomes, audience, real situations and activities before delivery. Both workshops combine skills development with rehearsal and feedback; experienced teams can spend more time practising real situations.

Useful preparation: Approved workplace examples, relevant policies, role boundaries and escalation routes. Typical escalations, approved service facts, scope boundaries and resolution authority.

Delivery options: two consecutive days, two spaced days or four half-days following the sessions above. Timings are agreed with you; spaced sessions allow workplace practice between meetings. These are private team workshops; public workshops retain their advertised duration.

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